Why nobody responds back to my messages?

We have no influence on whether a member responds to your request or not. But we have a few tips on how you can increase the chances to get responses.

Increase your chances!

Choose your pictures wisely! We all know that it is your picture that is standing between you and your match. People will check your pictures first before reading anything on your account. As they say, a picture is worth a thousand words and that's why we request that you upload a clear and recognizable picture. Would you write someone who has a blurred and unflattering photo? Show your smile and your interests. Send them the right signals by just looking at your pictures. Verify your profile as well as this helps the other user to know that you're legit. 📸 

What message did you send? Up your game and instead of sending them hi and hello, take a closer look at their profile: the pictures, read all details carefully and refer to them in your request. A friendly text, a specific question or common interests can quickly break the ice and increase your chances over a copy-paste or boring text. 🥱

Is your profile filled out? Tell me more about yourself before you write to others. What hobbies do you have? What are your interests and preferences? Maybe your counterpart discovers here an interesting commonality that can ignite the spark.

Is everything done? Awesome! Then another question is: Whom did you send the message to?

Here are a few tips:

Members who are online right now write back rather than those that have not logged in to Lovely for a few days. Check the online status in the profile before you send. If the member is looking for someone like you? In profile, one can describe his desire partner and the question is of course whether you fit these criteria. Age and distance are a very important factor here.

In addition to all the advice, of course, this includes a bit of luck and the right timing. Do not let yourself be discouraged by a few rejected requests. The right person is waiting for you and wants to be found. 🥰

Good luck!